Know Your Flock Before You Lead

 Know Your Flock Before You Lead

Leadership today is no longer confined to the ivory towers of prestigious B-Schools. It is evolving—new theories emerge, fresh perspectives are shared, and wisdom flows not only from research journals but also from the lived experiences of ordinary people. Insights born of reflection and experience are often as valuable as those shaped by academic study.

Among the many approaches, Situational Leadership has gained remarkable ground. It recognizes that no single style is universally effective. Instead, the leader adapts—choosing the right approach based on the situation and the readiness of the followers. Four styles are often described:

• Telling – Clear, step-by-step instructions with close monitoring.
• Selling – Training and guidance, with comparatively less monitoring.
• Participating – The leader joins in, working alongside the team.
• Delegating – Autonomy is given when followers are highly capable and self-motivated.

The art lies in discernment. Success depends not on rigid formulas but on the leader’s wisdom to judge whether followers are capable, willing, or hesitant. Recently, I came across a metaphorical post titled “Who is a Good Leader?” It depicted two images—one with the leader in front, the other with the leader behind. The beauty of these images is that neither is “right” or “wrong.” The best leader is not defined by position, but by the ability to switch positions when the situation demands. That is the essence of situational leadership.

• If followers are like chickens, lead from behind. They are skilled, instinctive, and need freedom to explore. A leader walking behind becomes their guardian, not their pathfinder.
• If followers are like ducks, lead from the front. When facing new challenges, tight deadlines, or uncertainty, they need someone to absorb the wind, clear the path, and say: “Follow me—I’ve got this.”

But beware: If you are always the “chicken,” your team may lose sense of direction. If you are always the “duck,” you may hinder their growth.

Just as in nature, leadership styles are neither good nor bad—they are situational. The leader’s task is to perceive whether the team before him is made of “chickens or ducks,” and to act accordingly.

In this way, situational leadership reminds us that effective guidance is not about authority alone, but about empathy, adaptability, and the wisdom to meet people where they are.

Dr. Mahendra Ingale @ Pune, March 30, 2026

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P.S. This is my 250 th post on Blogger.

Power – Fundamental Instinct

 Power – Fundamental Instinct

When we look to nature, we often discover mirrors of ourselves. Animals evolve naturally, guided by instinct and necessity. Humanity, by contrast, has laboured to build civilisation through reflection, discipline, and the establishment of value systems by great leaders and thinkers. Yet beneath the structures of society, primal instincts endure—hidden in the subconscious, rising in moments of crisis.

Among these instincts, power stands out as fundamental. Leadership itself is the social expression of this instinct.  In animals it ensures survival, in humans it shapes civilisations.

Strategic Crow

Consider the old story of the crow and the pot of water. Unable to reach the water at the bottom, the crow drops pebbles in the pot until the level of water rises. This fable, once told as a simple lesson in ingenuity, now finds new interpretations. Today, one might imagine the crow adapting further—picking up a straw from a grocery shop or restaurant, inserting it into the pot, and drinking with ease.

What seems like a playful revision is, in fact, a reflection of how learning and adaptation occur in nature. Animals, without formal training, learn through experience, observation, and necessity. They may not write books or blogs, but their actions embody insight. This is leadership in its rawest form—adaptive, situational, and born of necessity.

Collaborative Leadership in the Wild

Leadership in animals—whether in hunting, decision-making, or social behaviour—shows us that strategies evolve. What worked years ago may be replaced by new methods, born of reflection and adaptation.

In the Kibale forest of Uganda, chimpanzees have been observed raiding banana trucks with remarkable strategic planning and teamwork. One chimpanzee acts as a lookout, warning the group of danger, while another climbs onto the truck to break open crates. As bananas spill onto the road, more chimps rush in to collect them.

This coordinated effort is more than instinct—it demonstrates situational leadership shaped by experience and the demands of the moment. Their collaboration reflects an evolved strategy: leadership that adapts to circumstances, ensuring survival and success through collective action.

The Three Instincts

Philosophers and psychologists often speak of three fundamental instincts that shape both animals and humans: Survival, Reproduction and Power

1.Survival

The instinct for self-preservation manifests as fear, worry, aggression, and the drive to defend oneself against harm. In animals, this is seen in territorial defense or flight from predators. In humans, it surfaces in crises—moments when the thin layer of morality and societal order falls away, and primal reactions take over. Leadership here emerges as a form of protection: guiding the group to safety, ensuring collective survival.

2.Reproduction

Sexuality, once primarily tied to reproduction, has expanded far beyond its biological purpose. Human beings have discovered new ways to express and experience sexuality, often mediated by technology. Artificial intelligence, digital platforms, and virtual realities are reshaping sexual habits, modifying not only behaviour but the very expression of desire.

Sex has also become intertwined with power. Wealth, influence, and networks often display themselves through sexual expression, just as power itself demands such demonstrations. In this sense, sexuality is no longer only about survival of the species—it has become a symbol of status, dominance, and identity. Leadership here is about responsibility: transforming desire into respect, ensuring that relationships uplift rather than exploit.

3.Power

Over thousands of years, the thirst for power in both animals and humans has shifted from instinctive dominance behaviours to more complex, symbolic, and institutional forms.

Power in Animals

• Dominance hierarchies: Many species (wolves, lions, primates) establish leadership through strength, strategy, or social bonds. Alpha roles ensure survival and order.
• Territorial control: Power often manifests as control over space, food, or mates.
• Adaptation over time: While the instinct for dominance hasn’t diminished, strategies have evolved. Primates increasingly rely on cooperation and alliances rather than sheer aggression.
• Learning and innovation: Experiments show crows, dolphins, and elephants adapt their methods of problem-solving, reflecting a shift from brute force to intelligence as a form of power.

Power in Humans

In humans, power has traveled a long path—from physical dominance to symbolic authority, from survival to civilization.

• Early survival: In prehistoric times, power was physical—control over food, territory, and protection.
• Civilization: As societies formed, power shifted to leaders who could organize, inspire, and enforce rules. Kings, chiefs, and priests embodied authority.
• Institutionalization: Over centuries, power became embedded in structures—governments, religions, economies. It was no longer just physical but symbolic, tied to wealth, knowledge, and legitimacy.
• Modern transformation: Today, power often lies in technology, information, and influence rather than brute strength. Yet, in crises, primal instincts—fear, dominance, survival—still surface.

Leadership, therefore, is the channel through which power is expressed. In animals, it is instinctive and immediate; in humans, it is reflective and institutional. But in both, it remains rooted in the same primal drive.

Toward Higher Evolution

In essence, animals and humans share the same root instincts. What has changed over millennia is not the drives themselves, but the forms they take. In animals, this is seen in evolving strategies of survival, while in humans it is reflected in the creation of civilisation, institutions, and visions of transcendence.

The true evolution of leadership lies in transforming instincts—turning survival into service, power into vision, and sexuality into love and respect. In this transformation, humanity may rise to a higher form of evolution, making life richer, more compassionate, and more meaningful.

Dr. Mahendra Ingale @ Pune, March 27, 2026

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Leadership – Privilege or Burden?

 Leadership – Privilege or Burden?

Leadership is often seen as a privilege, but in truth it is a burden carried with responsibility. Those who rise to the highest positions must act with integrity, courage, and wisdom, for the weight of accountability rests most heavily upon them. Power without responsibility is ruinous, and in an age defined by technology, leaders must not only embrace new tools but also master them. To neglect this is to surrender power, for rivals will exploit such weakness.

Authority should be accepted only by those capable of discharging its duties with competence. Power attracts people—some sincere, others opportunistic. A leader must possess the knowledge and skills to discern motives. This requires grounding not only in one’s own professional domain but also in disciplines such as history, sociology, psychology, science, and technology. Training and broad learning strengthen judgment and perspective. Rising to power without such grounding may be possible, but remaining there is far more difficult—and the price of failure is heavy.

This reflection extends the principle I wrote in Courage to Say No, a chapter of my book Value-Based Leadership. There, I emphasized the need to say “NO” to things that do not align with one’s value system. Here, I sharpen the focus: say “NO” to power itself if you are not capable or if your conscience does not permit. History reminds us that true strength lies not only in accepting power but in refusing it when conscience or capability demands. George Washington declined a third presidential term, Mandela stepped aside after one, and Cincinnatus returned to his farm after saving Rome. Each proved that stepping away can be as noble as stepping up. Conversely, history also shows that those who accepted authority without ability—or without effort to make themselves suitable—were eventually crushed under its weight. To decline power when unprepared is not weakness; it is wisdom. Perhaps this very thought may evolve into a chapter of my next book.

In today’s interconnected world, leaders cannot remain aloof from social platforms such as Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. If these channels helped them rise, they must now manage them responsibly, even when time is scarce. Awareness is critical: surveillance is constant, not only from rivals but sometimes from those closest. Leaders must live with the reality of being watched—by spy cameras, paparazzi, and the public eye.

Prayer and reflection safeguard against the lure of misdeeds. Circumstances and people may tempt, but conscience must stand firm. Boundaries must be defined clearly, for expectations today are greater than ever. Self-analysis is essential: knowing one’s strengths and weaknesses, as well as those of associates—their ambitions, aspirations, and wisdom. Associates are not always gullible; history shows that even close allies have exposed rulers. Transparency, though risky, yields more advantages than disadvantages, for openness builds trust.

The progress of civil society depends not only on leaders but also on citizens. True progress occurs when individuals suggest names of those more capable than themselves for positions of responsibility. Such selflessness is rare, but it exists—and it is the seed of genuine democracy and collective advancement.

Thus, leadership is both privilege and burden. It demands bravery, discernment, humility, and above all, the courage to say “NO” when one is unprepared to lead. Wisdom cannot be conferred by others; it must be cultivated within. Without it, ruin is inevitable.

Dr. Mahendra Ingale @ Pune, March 26, 2026

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The Power of a Question

 The Power of a Question

I am very grateful to Abhijit from Book Blabber for reviewing my book and for conducting such a well‑designed interview. His insightful and probing questions did not merely make the conversation engaging—they created eagerness among readers to reach for the book. He also shared it across digital platforms and provided links for interested readers, all with great care and thoughtfulness.

What touched me most was when he asked: “What specific moment or lesson from the book is close to your heart?” That question led me to narrate the incident behind “The Three‑Fold Nature of Struggle” and the conceptual framework “Decision‑Making with Intuition Integrated with Prayer,” both born out of those days of struggle and prayer. Through his articulated question, Abhijit brought this out beautifully.

Another question led me into even deeper reflection: “This reminds me of Stoicism. Are you stoic? Do you believe in it?” That simple inquiry made me pause and ask myself—Who am I? In that moment, I realized the true power of the interviewer. An interview is not just a series of questions and answers; it is something more profound.

What impressed me was Abhijit’s preparation. He had studied my profile, read my blogs, and entered into my way of thinking. Only then could the word “Stoicism” flash in his mind and lead to such a meaningful question. 

In one of my blogs, I once narrated how a teacher’s question—“What do you want to be remembered for?”—changed the life of his students. Every great question is a mirror. It shows us not only what we have lived, but also who we are becoming. I know the power of a question. And Abhijit used it effectively, I must say.

This experience reminded me that a good interview is not about extracting information—it is about awakening reflection. It is about creating a dialogue that lingers in the heart of both the author and the reader.

I would love if you go through full interview by clicking https://bookblabber.co.in/indie-author-spotlight-mahendra-ingale/

Dr.  Mahendra Ingale @ Pune on March 21, 2026

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ठोकशाहीतून – विठोबांच्या शब्दांत

 ठोकशाहीतून – विठोबांच्या शब्दांत

विशेष प्रसंगी ठोकशाहीच्या पानांवर विठोबा अवतरतात! चांगले कार्य करणाऱ्यांच्या पाठीवर कौतुकाची  छाप आणि चुकीच्या वाटेवर चालणाऱ्यांना सोट्याचा इशारा हा त्यांचा खाक्या, ठोकशाहीच्या धोरणाशी सुसंगत.

Value-Based Leadership या पुस्तकाची बातमी विठोबांपर्यंत पोहोचली. त्यांना ती विशेष वाटली. एका इंग्रजी प्रकाशन संस्थेकडून पुस्तकाचे परीक्षण होत आहे हे पाहून त्यांच्या मनात आनंदाचे तरंग उमटले. त्यांनी तत्काळ त्याचे मराठी भाषांतर केले. सा. ठोकशाहीच्या पानांवर ते प्रकाशित झाले. विठोबाच्या शब्दात ते येथे देत आहे.

“Value-Based Leadership (मूल्याधिष्ठित नेतृत्व) समीक्षा:

मूल्ये अजूनही नेत्यांना मार्गदर्शन करू शकतात का?

मी प्रिया श्रीवास्तव, Editor-in-Chief, Deified Publication.  पंधरा वर्षांहून अधिक काळ, मी विविध प्रकारची पुस्तके वाचत आहे. काही आठवडे मी कादंबऱ्यांमध्ये बुडून जाते, तर काही आठवडे आत्मचरित्रे किंवा व्यवस्थापनावरील पुस्तके माझ्या टेबलावर येतात. नेतृत्वा (Leadership ) वरील पुस्तके विशेषतः एक ठराविक पद्धतीची असतात—फ्रेमवर्क्स, बुलेट पॉइंट्स, आकृत्या, आणि जग कसे चालावे याबद्दल खूप काही. म्हणून जेव्हा मी प्रथम डॉ. महेंद्र इंगळे यांचे Value-Based Leadership  हे पुस्तक पाहिले, तेव्हा मी थोडे थांबले. शीर्षक चमकदार होते, किंवा त्यात मोठी आश्वासने दिसत होती म्हणून नव्हे. खरं सांगायचं तर, पुस्तकाच्या वर्णनाचा सूर, आणि मुख्य म्हणजे मुखपृष्ठाने मला थांबवले. मुखपृष्ठावर एक दिशादर्शक कंपास, आणि त्याच्या मध्यभागी एक मशाल आहे. साधे दृश्य, पण ते मनात रेंगाळले. नेतृत्व म्हणजे दिशा! नेतृत्व म्हणजे प्रकाश! कदाचित मी मुखपृष्ठात खूप अर्थ शोधत असेन. संपादकांना तसे करायची सवय असते.

पण नेतृत्वाच्या पुस्तकात कविता, इतिहास आणि तत्त्वज्ञान यांचा संगम बघून माझी उत्सुकता आणखी वाढली. नेतृत्वावरील पुस्तके क्वचितच त्या वाटेने जातात. ती साधारणपणे संस्थांची धोरणे आणि उत्पादकतेच्या चौकटीतच राहतात. आणि मला सतत वाटते हाच प्रश्न आहे. आज नेतृत्व करणाऱ्यांची खरी झुंज धोरणांशी नाही, तर जीवन आणि कार्याला अर्थ देण्याशी आहे. आणि हेच या पुस्तकाने सांगण्याचा प्रयत्न केला आहे.

पुस्तकाबद्दल:

नेतृत्वाचे निर्णय  शाश्वत मूल्यांशी जोडणे हा विचार या पुस्तकाच्या केंद्रस्थानी आहे. फक्त कामगिरीचे मोजमाप, साध्य केलेली उद्दिष्टे किंवा तिमाही आकडेवारी यावरून नेतृत्वाचे मूल्यमापन होऊ शकत नाही .

डॉ. इंगळे यांनी नेतृत्वाकडे चिंतनशीलता,  तत्त्वज्ञानातील अंतर्दृष्टी आणि इतिहासातून घेतलेले  धडे यांच्या मिश्रणातून पाहिले आहे. नेतृत्व मार्गदर्शना करिता हा एक अनोखा संगम आहे, आणि खरं सांगायचं तर तो नाविन्यपूर्ण आहे.

हे पुस्तक नेत्यांना अनिश्चिततेतून मार्गक्रमण करताना प्रामाणिकपणा, नम्रता आणि सेवाभावाशी जोडून ठेवण्यास मदत करते. लेखक सुचवतात की नेतृत्व म्हणजे फक्त लोकांना दिशा देणे नाही, तर त्यांना चारित्र्य संपन्न बनण्यास मदत करणे हे आहे. हो, लोकांना दिशा हवी असते, पण त्यांना अर्थही हवा असतो. या पुस्तकात चिंतानावर भर दिलेला आहे. मूल्ये केंद्रस्थानी ठेवून  निर्णय घेणे आणि नंतर त्याची अर्थपूर्णरित्या अंमलबजावणी करणे अशा स्वरूपाची मांडणी केली आहे. स्वतःच्या आचारणातून घालून दिलेल्या उदाहरणाने नेत्याचा अधिक प्रभाव पडतो हे उदाहरणे देवून स्पष्ट केले आहे.

मला जे जाणवले:

पहिली गोष्ट म्हणजे पुस्तकाचा सूर. डॉ. महेंद्र इंगळे यांनी चार दशकांहून अधिक काळ अभियांत्रिकी शिक्षण आणि नेतृत्व विकासात काम केले असल्याने त्यांच्या लेखनात अनुभवाची खोली जाणवते.

दुसरी गोष्ट म्हणजे चिंतनावर दिलेला भर. नेतृत्वावरील पुस्तके बहुतेक वेळा कृतीच्या पायऱ्यांकडे धावतात. पण खरी वाढ चिंतनातूनच होते.

कवितेचा उल्लेखही मला आकर्षक वाटला. नेतृत्व हा शेवटी मानवी अनुभव आहे, आणि कविता त्याला अधिक खोलवर जावून  व्यक्त करू शकते.

मुखपृष्ठावरील दिशादर्शक कंपासाचे प्रतीक सूक्ष्मपणे सांगते की नेतृत्व म्हणजे दिशा दाखवणे, नियंत्रण ठेवणे नव्हे.

भावनिक केंद्रबिंदू:

नेतृत्व विषयावरील, अनेक पुस्तके सत्ता, प्रभाव, आणि अधिकार याबद्दल बोलतात. पण जी पुस्तके खरोखर लोकांच्या हृदयाचा ठाव घेतात ती जबाबदारीबद्दल बोलतात. मूल्याधिष्ठित नेतृत्व हे पुस्तक नेतृत्वाला सेवाभावाशी जोडते. अहंकाराशी नाही. त्यामुळे ते हृदयचा ठाव घेते.

आजच्या काळात, जेव्हा संस्थांच्या कार्यशैलीत मोठ्या प्रमाणात परिवर्तन होत आहे, तंत्रज्ञान वेगाने बदलत आहे  आणि भविष्याबद्दल अनिश्चितता वाटते तेव्हा फक्त कार्यक्षमतेचाच विचार केल्यास नेते भावनिक बाजू गमाऊन बसू शकतात हा सूचक इशाराही या पुस्तकातून देण्यात आला आहे.

हे पुस्तक कोणासाठी:

जर तुम्हाला परफॉर्मेंस चार्ट्स आणि प्रॉडक्टिविटी  हॅक्स असलेले कॉर्पोरेट प्लेबुक हवे असेल, तर हे पुस्तक तुमच्यासाठी नाही. पण जर तुम्हाला अर्थपूर्ण जीवन जगण्याकरिता शाश्वत मूल्ये, तत्त्वज्ञान, गोष्टी व रुपके  आणि वैयक्तिक चिंतन महत्वाचे वाटत असेल तर हे पुस्तक तुमच्यासाठी आहे.

अंतिम विचार:

नेतृत्व विषयावरील बहुतेक पुस्तके नेत्यांनी वेगाने पुढे कसे जायचे हे सांगणारी आहेत. पण मूल्याधिष्ठित नेतृत्व हे पुस्तक नेतृत्वाकडे अधिक चिंतनशील आणि मानवी दृष्टिकोनातून पाहण्याचा प्रयत्न करते. ही पद्धत थोडी संथ वाटू शकते, पण कदाचित नेत्यांना ह्याच गोष्टीची गरज आहे—थोडं थांबून विचार करण्याची.

आजच्या परिस्थितीत, २०२६ मधे, प्रेम, कृतज्ञता, सहनशीलता, नम्रता, सहृदयता, धैर्य या शाश्वत मूल्यांची नेत्यांना आठवण करून देवून त्यानुसार मार्ग क्रमण करण्यास प्रोत्साहित करतील अशी पुस्तके हवीत. डॉ. महेंद्र इंगळे यांचे Value-Based Leadership हे त्यापैकी एक आहे.”

विठोबांनी परिश्रमपूर्वक इंग्रजीतून मराठीत भाषांतर केले. चार कौतुकाचे शब्द लिहिले. त्याबद्दल त्यांचे मनःपूर्वक आभार. त्यांच्या चरणी साष्टांग दंडवत!

विठोबा म्हणजे मधुकर तर नव्हे? नावातच मधू आहे—मध म्हणजे गोडवा, आनंद. कर म्हणजे निर्माता. मध गोळा करून किंवा निर्माण करून लोकांमध्ये वाटणारा, त्यांच्या जीवनात आनंद निर्माण करणारा—तोच मधुकर….

Dr. Mahendra Ingale @ Pune on March 21, 2026

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